CREATING MAGICAL MEMORIES THAT YOUR FAMILY WILL CHERISH
Maybe it’s the smell of fresh sugar cookies taking us back to our grandmother’s kitchen when we were little, hearing the sweet innocent voice of our child during their Christmas concert or feeling the gentle tug on our heartstrings, reminding us that another year with our sweet children has passed, but something about the Christmas season seems to bring everything into clearer focus.
I need to spend more time my kids this holiday season and less time stressing out.
I want to create memories they’ll always remember in an atmosphere of love and closeness.
I want to make time for family bonding and strengthening family relationships.
It’s NOT all about making a plan and following through during one of the busiest times of the year. IT IS about creating magical moments with your kids. Here’s a list to get you brainstorming on which Christmas ideas for families will cultivate the best family bonding. Don't forget to add your own flair.
50 Family Bonding Activities for Christmas
1.Have a family board game tournament and chose an object for the official trophy!
2.Connect through art with these fun interactive (and washable!) tablecloths
3.Take a family vote and then watch the ‘all-time favorite’ Christmas movie
4.Have a pizza picnic on a blanket by candlelight at the end of a busy day
5.Go ice skating
6.Savor their smallness with holiday footprint art
7.Let your child be the photographer to document a special day
8.Go sledding (yes you too!)
9.Tell the story of the birth of Jesus and let the kids get in on the action with this nativity
10.Read Christmas stories cuddled in the dark with flashlights
11.Look through family photo albums together
12.Write your child a letter about how they’ve grown in the past year and what an amazing kid they are!
13.Boost well-being by making a craft or ornament from nature
14.Have a ‘secret Santa’ exchange with your immediate family (shhh no telling!)
15.Share Christmas traditions from your childhood with the kids.
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16.Have a ‘family bake-off’ where each member gets to make their favorite Christmas cookies and everyone judges the winner.
17.Bundle up and head out on a nighttime nature walk with flashlights
18.Head to the local animal shelter or outdoor petting zoo to cuddle and feed the animals
19.Cook a meal together
20.Make homemade wrapping paper
21.Create a family time capsule ornament for the past year.
22.Sing the most annoying Christmas songs together during a road trip
23.Go see a Christmas play at a local theatre (or watch one on TV!)
24.Watch family videos from your childhood (kids LOVE this).
25.Try these epic Elf on the Shelf Ideas
26.Read the scriptures covering the birth of Jesus
27. Decorate gingerbread houses (step away and let your kid do it all by themselves!)
28.Have a one on one date with your child and chat about their favorite parts of Christmas
29.Make a hot chocolate bar
30.Have a diy spa day complete with foot soaks and manicures
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31.Take a drive to see Christmas lights and decorations (don’t forget to-go mugs with hot chocolate!)
32.Make homemade Christmas ornaments to hand out
33.Let the kids decorate their own small Christmas tree all by themselves
34.Make your own Christmas popcorn
35.Have a winter fire outdoors
36.Print this nature advent calendar to help promote outdoor time in the winter
37.Try these mindfulness activities with your child to help handle holiday stress
38.Have a holiday movie bing-a-thon
39.Show up on someone’s doorstep to sing carols
40.Go to the Nutcracker Ballet (or catch this one online for safe social distancing)
41.Volunteer at the local food pantry
42.Bake a birthday cake for Jesus
43.Teach kindness with the Kindness Elves
44.Take your kids to shop for their own gifts for other members of the family
45.Make reindeer food to put out the night before Christmas
46.One of our new favorite family bonding activities is heading to the local tree farm to cut down a real Christmas tree.
47.Make homemade tree garland
48.Open gifts on Christmas Eve (gasp!). Santa coming after midnight mass was a childhood tradition I adored growing up.
49.Choose some of these adorable Artsy Christmas Tree Crafts
50.Enjoy this miraculous time of year with your little blessings.
Family bonding activities at Christmas don’t need to be complicated
Being together is what counts.
It seems like all your child wants for Christmas is presents, but I bet you’d agree when you look back on your own childhood the other kind of presence is what you remember most. Making time for family bonding activities with your kids at Christmas is an investment you’ll never regret.
I'm in love with Christmas and although I haven't checked to make sure, I think Christmas loves me back. Growing up with a stay at home mom didn't offer lavish or expensive gifts but maybe that's why I love our traditions so much! I usually went into Christmas with low expectations as a kid but it always proved its magic. Christmas to me is about family, it's about fun traditions and creating magical moments with our relatives.
Anyway, right now I want to talk about some fun Christmas traditions because they are one of my favorite aspect of Christmas! Well besides the joy of sharing the day with our cousins, grandparents and our aunts and uncles.
Christmas Traditions
This is a super fun Christmas Tradition for starting out your holidays. The gist of it? Santa sends a letter to your house asking the kids to help out the North Pole by donating toys they don't need anymore so that there are enough toys to go around this Christmas. Not only does this get your kids involved in the true spirit of Christmas, but it helps you to declutter and get rid of things you don't need, before bringing new toys into the home. My husband's rule at our house is, “for everything you buy, you have to get rid of at least two things.” He hates having too much “stuff.”
Christmas Kindness Elves.
A fun alternative to “Elf on the Shelf” that focuses on doing kind things for someone every day leading up to Christmas. You need to order this one early so it ships on time!
Christmas Treasure Map This is a fun scavenger hunt that leads the kids to a new Christmas activity each day leading up to Christmas. You can customize it however you like! If you are giving a vacation for Christmas, make sure and check out all the best Black Friday Travel Deals (Includes Cyber Monday).
CHRISTMAS STALKER: In our family every year we draw names and whoever has our name is called our “Christmas Stalker” meaning you should “stalk” the family member you have to find out what gift would be most meaningful for them to receive. Another reason we were called “stalkers” is because our gift was to fit in a stocking….large or small…bought or made.
We had themes every year; sometimes the gift had to be handmade, sometimes it had to be from the classifieds or a yard sale, sometimes it had to be something we already had, and sometimes it was purchased but had a spending limit (usually $10 which resulted in all of us watching the Amazon Lightning deals to see who could find the best deal for $10).
See my previous post for a fun Christmas Stocking Tradition, as well as some ideas for stocking stuffers!
CHILDREN'S CHRISTMAS TREE: A few years back I babysat for someone who had a neat Christmas tradition and I have decided to carry it on in my own little family. They had a separate “mini” tree for the kids that they were welcome to decorate and re-decorate over and over.
Underneath the tree were Christmas books all wrapped up. Each night the children got to pick a present to open and they read that book as a family that night. The books she put under the tree weren't all Christmas books either–some were holiday books, some were silly books, and some were children's books that teach life lessons.
I saw on Pinterest the other day a kid's tree using felt. I didn't really want one on my wall, so I made my own version using a 28″ safety cone that I bought off Amazon. I wanted something that I could use year after year and that wouldn't fall apart. When Christmas is over, I can store the felt tree with my Christmas stuff, and put the orange cone in the garage. See my post Toddler Felt Tree Tutorial for more instructions.
MATCHING CHRISTMAS PAJAMAS: (JUST FOUND THIS: DEAL ON MATCHING CHRISTMAS JAMMIES) I know of many families that do this one and have decided to do it myself. On Christmas eve, there is a knock at the door and Santa's elves secretly leave new Christmas pajamas for everyone.
This always makes for fun pictures.
Santa's Elves leave a special Christmas Eve Box or Bucket at the door on Christmas Eve filled with PJ's, cocoa, & more!
Gingerbread Village and Hot Cocoa: For me, it's just not Christmas season without decorating gingerbread with the kids. Make up some of this homemade hot cocoa (make it once and then you have a pre-made mix for the rest of the season), and make a gingerbread village as a family!
SLEEP OVER: Another fun tradition is to have all of the kids have a sleepover in one room and know that they can stay up as late as they want together watching Christmas movies and playing games, but they have to stay in the room (usually the furthest room from the Christmas tree so they don't over hear “Santa”). This also keeps them up late and makes them tired, hopefully keeping them from waking up mom and dad at 4 AM.
CHINESE: I have a friend whose family goes out for Chinese in their Christmas pajamas every Christmas Eve. Christmas traditions like this are fun because the kids look forward to it every year and the pictures are priceless. This wouldn't have to be Chinese, you could adapt it to your own family's preference.
SANTA vs. PARENTS Debate: We just put their name on gift tags. Never being pro or con Santa helps when they stopped believing.
Christmas Trip. Several families have the tradition of giving a family vacation for Christmas instead of “things.” Here's a fun printable ticket template for surprising a trip.
REINDEER NAMES: This is a fun way of tagging Christmas gifts. Rather than put the child's name on each present, assign each child a reindeer name. This keeps the children from running to the tree and pulling out all the presents with their name on it because until present opening starts, no one knows who's nickname is “Dasher” or who is “Prancer.”
HALLMARK CHRISTMAS MOVIES. This is one of my FAVORITE Christmas traditions. Hallmark Christmas movies bring that feel-good Christmas spirit that makes the holidays so great. They do a Christmas countdown starting in October, with Christmas movies every day! If you have the Hallmark channel, you can see the Hallmark Christmas Movie Schedule here, or if you have an Amazon account, see our post on all the Hallmark Movies you Can Watch on Amazon (many for free)
These were always tender and special moments that made my Christmas memorable. See an entire list of ideas for Christmas kindness (and free printables here): Fun Ways to have a Christ-centered Christmas
GIFT FOR JESUS: We did this one several different years. We would write up a gift that we were going to give to the Savior over the next year and put it inside of an ornament. The next year we would read what we wrote and hopefully smile that we accomplished our goal. Use our free Gift For Jesus printable.
NATIVITY: My mother always did some type of Christmas Eve “devotional”, and part of it usually consisted of us dressing up and acting out the story of Christ's birth from the book of Luke. Now that a lot of us are older, the grandchildren now act out the story. You could also make nativity gingerbread houses!
I enjoy falling in love with new Christmas traditions and making them my own because family traditions are extremely important for family unity. Traditions contribute to healthy family life because they give children a sense of belonging–that they are part of a group rather than a solitary individual.